Busy Bee

wow i never knew i would be so busy in my life! i have been starting a new job and planning a wedding hopefully i will have more time to blog after we are married. till then...we have

19 days left

till we are married!!

Planning Planning!!

ahhh! planning is so crazy! just three months to plan a wedding is stressful.

I already have the food figured out, but I have not given my family assignments yet.

I have my dress picked out, but not sure if I want a veil or a flower in my hair.

I called the cake person and told her what I wanted but I still need to pick the flavors.

I emailed the flower lady just now so maybe tonight I will get an email back...?

Trenton and I still need to go pick out his ring so I can buy it in time.

We need to take our engagements and make announcements and send them out.

ahhh!! weddings! I just love weddings! :) not joking I do! but maybe not the planning part.

We picked a date!

After many thought we have finally picked our wedding date!!!.......

JUNE 18TH 2010!


Wooo Hooo! we are soo excited! :)
planning planning planning!!

Snowy Engagement Pictures

AHH!! i love this one! :)

Valentines Day Weekend

This Valentines day was very special :) It was both our first valentines day with someone to share it with. We went to the Movie Valentines Day and then BJ's Restaurant for lunch hung out at Lazy boy, the mall, and Walmart and then went to Olive Garden :)

TIP: if you are ever bored? just go to Walmart!

SO true! He is Hot Stuff :)

My Fiance is a Stud!

We ate out at Olive Garden for dinner :)
It was Delicious!

TIP: always pay attention to what you are doing!!!
This took forever to take off. I had to let it cool and go print out another one, and then scrape off the words with a blade.. oh what joy!

the back of our shirts

Trent got me super soft amazing pjs :)

Trent came over this morning and gave me my presents :) he is always so busy so i got it the day after :)

Hehe my card was so cute!

Trent gave me a cute necklace and the watch I wanted :)

I LOVE THIS BOUQUET

These are the flowers Trent Gave me :)

Ahh! i love my ring!

Trentons new watch that I got him for Valentines Day

The Grapefruit Syndrome

The Grapefruit Syndrome

My husband and I had been married about two years - long enough for me to realize that he was a normal man rather than a knight on a white charger - when I read a magazine article recommending that married couples schedule regular talks to discuss, truthfully and candidly, the habits or mannerisms they find annoying in each other. The theory was that if the partners knew of such annoyances, they could correct them before resentful feelings developed.

It made sense to me. I talked with my husband about the idea. After some hesitation, he agreed to give it a try.

As I recall, we were to name five things we found annoying, and I started off. After more that fifty years, I remember only my first complaint: grapefruit. I told him that I didn't like the way he ate grapefruit. He peeled it and ate it like an orange! Nobody else I knew ate grapefruit like that. Could a girl be expected to spend a lifetime, and even eternity, watching her husband eat grapefruit like an orange? although I have forgotten them, I'm sure the rest of my complaints were similar.

After I finished, it was his turn to tell the things he disliked about me. Though it has been more than half a century, I still carry a mental image of my husband's handsome young face as he gathered his brows together in a thoughtful, puzzled frown and then looked at me with his large blue-gray eyes and said, "Well, to tell you the truth, I can't think of anything I don't like about you, Honey."

Gasp!

I quickly turned my back, because I didn't know how to explain the tears that had filled my eyes and were running down my face. I had found fault with him over such trivial things as the way he ate grapefruit, while he hadn't even noticed any of my peculiar and no doubt annoying ways.

I wish I could say that this experience completely cured me of fault finding. It didn't. But it did make me aware early in my marriage that husbands and wives need to keep in perspective, and usually ignore, the small differences in their habits and personalities. Whenever I hear of married couples being incompatible, I always wonder if they are suffering from what I now call the Grapefruit Syndrome.

I love this, I got this story from my Aunts blog. It makes me realize I get like this every once in a while with Trent. I cannot believe the patience Trent has with me and my crazy and annoying faults. Everyday I wake up thinking that I am the luckiest woman in this world! I love Trenton so much and all the happiness he brings me in life. We are not married yet, (though I wish we were) but I know that in our marriage we will have hard trials. But I cant imagine choosing anyone else I would want by my side, holding my hand, encouraging me along the way than Trenton :) I love you Hunny with all my heart! You are my Mr. Incredible <3

He Popped the Question

Josh got a wheel toy

Alyssa got a girl sheep which is a ewe (you)

"WHEEL"
"EWE"
"MARY"
It took me a while to figure it out but i got it! :)

I loooove my ring!

I am so glad we are finally engaged!!